L a s t S u m m e r;

Friday, November 30, 2007

from graciie blog

Oprah's View on Men.

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.

Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat afriend.

Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street.

You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary, not supplementary.

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him -he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother's house.

Neverco-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Share this with other women and men (just so they know)... You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

haha.. find it quite true.. keke

.t.i.n.g.z. signed off at 4:58 PM

Tuesday, November 27, 2007

Ideal Relationship

Your Ideal Relationship is Serious Dating

You're not ready to go walking down the aisle.

But you may be ready in a couple of years.

You prefer to date one on one, with a commitment.

And while chemistry is important, so is compatibility.

What's Your Ideal Relationship?

.t.i.n.g.z. signed off at 1:43 PM

Sunday, November 25, 2007

i hate myself from loving you

once again. after the promise. tried to meet today, bt he got sick, and did not work out. my heart can't take it already i message him back "maybe it's nt meant to be. i don't want to meet you again. i don't want to feel that pain in my chest. i very very tired."

i feel that i have lost my confidence in meeting him again and again. decided to cancel my birthday celebration with him on my birthday, i afraid that the same thing will happen again and i will be left alone on my birthday.

i nv did celebrate my birthday with my frens and all on the actual day, this year is the first yr where i feel like celebrating it.. the funny thing is, why is the birthday gal have to plan her day, when she wants to get surprise by him. . i think i giving too much in this relationship already, i feel like giving up. SUPER TIRED, after today's message which i hoping that i will not receive from him. and it did came into my hp again.

my tears totally break down as last night i told myself, "we will finally meeting each other on weekends." bt disappointment came to me again. I told myself "It's over, I have done my part, Maybe it's really not meant to be, I should not have agreed to start this relationship."

my frens all ask me to give up this relationship, bt i decided to trust him once again. he broked it by hurting me again and again causing me to build a invisible wall growing inside of me.

you may nv see me again, i would runaway from you if i have the chance.
afraid of getting hurt again and again by you

.t.i.n.g.z. signed off at 7:47 PM

Friday, November 23, 2007

45 things gals want and will nt ask

got it from pinkdior blog.. haha.. find it quite true.. so decide to post it out.. =))

1. Touch her waist.
2. Actually talk to her.
3. Share secrets with her.
4. Give her your jacket.
5. Kiss her slowly.

Are you remembering this?

6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her somewhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends together.

KEEP READING

11. Smile with her.
12. Take pictures with her.
13. Pull her onto your lap.
14. When she says she loves you more, deny it. Fight back.
15. When her friends say i love her more than you, deny it. fight back and hug her tight so she can’t get to her friends. it makes her feel loved.

Are you thinking of someone?

16. Always hug her and say I love you whenever you see her.
17. Kiss her unexpectedly.
18. Hug her from behind around the waist.
19. Tell her she’s beautiful.
20. Tell her the way you feel about her.

One last thing you need to do to show her you actually do mean it.

21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car- it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman.
22. Tell her she’s your everything - only if you mean it.
23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her- if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN’T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT- so just hug her
24. Make her feel loved.
25-kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know!!!!*

WE MIGHT DENY IT BUT WE ACTUALLY LIKE AND KINDA WANT YOU TO TICKLE US

26-don’t lie to HER.*
27-DON’T cheat on her.*
28-take her ANYWHERE she wants
29-txt messege or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at work {or school}, and how much you MISS her.
30-be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn’t need you, just be there so she’ll know that she can ALWAYS count on you.*

ARE YOU STILL READING THIS? YOU BETTER BECAUSE, IT’S IMPORTANT

31. Hold her close when she’s cold so she can hold YOU too.
32. When you are ALONE hold her close and kiss her.*
33. Kiss her on the CHEEK; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her).*
34. While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automaticall y put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her LIGHTLY.
35. Dont EVER tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you’re mad. If shes upset, comfort her.

REME MBER ALL THESE THINGS WHEN YOU ARE WITH HER NEXT

36. When people DISS her, stand up for her.*
37. Look deep into her EYES and tell her you love her.*
38. Lay down under the STARS and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, Link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you .
39. When walking next to each other grab her HAND.*
40. When you hug her HOLD her in your arms as long as possible*

MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHES LOVED

41. Call or text her at night to wish her SWEET DREAMS*
42. COMFORT her when she cries and wipe away her tears.*
43. Take her for LONG walks at night.
44. ALWAYS Remind her how much you love her.*
45. sit on top of her and tell her how much u love her and then bend down to her face and kiss her while sitting on
her.

you’ll never know when she needs just a lil more love

hint to all guys.. haha..

.t.i.n.g.z. signed off at 12:08 PM

Monday, November 19, 2007

BACKz

keke.... went to KL with my family for the weekend.. just got back onli.. keke

rushed there de.. so nv really did inform all my frens that i am going there..

so.. nothing much left bt in the end i went to CUT my hair.. ahha cos my darling keep saying my hair very dry, so went to cut and do treatment, cut away all the CURs which i permed this year and did super intensive treatment hopefully it will nt be so dry ba.

BEFORE

haha..

here's my hair cut with my mei..

After HAIR CUT..

.t.i.n.g.z. signed off at 9:40 PM

Wednesday, November 14, 2007

FREN TEST

Who Knows Me The Most....

hhaha.. bored at work.. create this test for all to take.. http://www.truefriendtest.com/friendtest/1224957

Create your own Friend Test here lallalala~~ jy to all. =X

.t.i.n.g.z. signed off at 9:29 AM

Tuesday, November 13, 2007

BORING DAY

men si wor le..

ARGH................. so bored.. rotting corpse at work trying my very best not to fall asleep.. =.=''
hoping the time passes faster and my eyes don't close.... there's nothing much to do today... TIME PLEASE PASS FASTER......... ARHHH.. DYING HERE.. hopefully tml will nt be so bored.. I WILL BRING MY WORD SEARCH.. keke

tml meeting my dearlie... finally after 2 weeks after we see each other again.. misses him so much.. but too bad he doesn't have time to meet me.. haiz.. catching the movie "Beowulf" and a dinner at a jap restaurant.. hehe.. hopefully we are working out ba.. haiz..

i miss u so much my darling..
hoping our r/s will work out.......

.t.i.n.g.z. signed off at 5:19 PM

Monday, November 12, 2007

even in my arms..... you were always OUT OF REACH

i wana go www.. but my dearie not free to go with me.. planning to go for ages and even with free entry tickets also no time go.. haiz.. since dearly can't go with me.. i will go with baobei.. but the tickets expires on the 21 nov.. i no time go, so a promise to baobei we go to jurong west de since they are mostly the same. and AFTER WE BUY HER A BIKINI.. dan we both wear.. keke.. =X go there play.. keke.

in work now.. feel free to call or message me at work.. as it's really a relaxing job... too relax tat i feel like going back to aig to work.. as there is more things to do and i will not feel so bored....

I WAN CUT MY HAIR -> to hebe's hair.. =X duno suitable ma.. so long nv cut SHORT hair le.. hmm~ feel a little strange.. keke

tinGz misses you so much..

.t.i.n.g.z. signed off at 1:11 PM

Thursday, November 08, 2007

birthday

howlz aiai today birthday.. kekke

happy happy birthday.

muackz.. =))

1 more mth my turn.. keke

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